If you are cutting yourself there is a very good chance that you are depressed. This site will help you with depression ,Self harm and suicidal thoughts. We know cutters and speak with them in the inner cities of America and in Europe.
Cutting yourself is directly related to your depressed state of mind. You are depressed if you are harming yourself. It is not your fault, I can assure you that others have greatly contributed to your depression. Much of the information on healing from cutting yourself is the same old stuff that can help but is not life changing.
We want you to know that you are empty if you are harming yourself
and that you can be filled back up. Medication can help but it will not replace what is missing in you. We show those cutting themselves that they have the power to heal
Studies show that depression and self harm go hand in hand. There is a technique that puts the power back in you and fills you back up. You can also de-activate a cutting thought. Read this site and be healed of self harm
To those depressed realize that the stress and depression that you feel can be healed. Depression and suicide rates are going up and so are the use of anti-depressants. The cycle of medication and depression continues. I do feel that medication is a good help and should be taken by those who need it, but stopping there is robbing yourself of a complete healing.
Depression is a life robbing illness that must be defeated. Read “Why your doctors cannot cure you of cutting yourself” on this site and learn to be truly healed.
You can take back the control that has been taken from you.
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9 Comments
April 15, 2009 at 4:27 pm
I noticed that this is not the first time at all that you mention the topic. Why have you chosen it again?
April 15, 2009 at 5:55 pm
Hi, Thank you for your comments. We keep getting tons of responses from people cutting and self harming. Not one day goes by without a cutter writing or emailing SpiritHappy, sometimes too many to count; cutters and suicidal teens and adults keep writing here from all over the globe stating that they are in pain. Just yesterday a girl 14 years old wrote to me and was ready to commit suicide and has been cutting, she says her Father is abusive and she is ready to commit suicide.
We are trying to awaken the cutters to not give up and the more we write about it tons of new responses come in from people who are in trouble.
Thank you for your comments and be well!
June 11, 2009 at 11:00 pm
Hello, I’m a 14 year old girl in sing. I have been cutting for 2 years.. but ever since my grades went down I would cut n think of commiting suicide. I did it twice, but failed.. my life is so complicated!! I cut, but no one cares about me.. I feel so desperate to stop.. but I tried so many times n all failed.. what should I do?
June 12, 2009 at 10:50 pm
Hi, We will send you the “Red Report” for free. I will try to email it to you today. Please contact me if you have not received it. Take care
June 26, 2009 at 9:49 pm
I am a 33 year old cutter. I have been cutting since I was 12. I actually stopped for a few years, when I was 28, because I cut myself on an artery bad and was afraid for a while. There are scars all over my arms and even as an adult I can not ever feel that I can stop. I have a bad day, I cut. I have a fight with a family member, I cut. I can not explain the relief that I feel, and then the shame. Even now I can not tell people. I was an incest survior and also a date rape victum, many times. Its summer time, I never wear a bathing suit, I wear long sleves and let people think that I get sun burned.
My Father was an alcholic and my Mother even now is mentally unstable and continues to abuse my verbally. I stay away from her, she calls, emails, sends letters and even comes to my house. I feel constantly like I am living in a war zone. I was married a few years ago and my husband is disgusted and angered by this “behavior”. I want help, I can not seem to get past this pain. To all others who are living with pain, I understand.
August 18, 2009 at 4:16 am
I started cutting Literally CHUNKS out of my arms and legs last week and I haven’t done that for over 9 years. I am not on meds other than for ADHD (ritalin) and it also somewhat helps raise my mood for my depression. I have been on so many meds and none of them work other than to make me fat and lethargic and I will not go back on any of them.
I want to stop but lately I am going through so much sadness and I am so distraught over the emotional and physical abuse of my own daughter who is a teenager. She is horrible to me and I feel useless and hopeless and I am certain this was the beginning of the severe depression again.
I am going to go to my psych in a few weeks when he gets back from vacation. I am ashamed to admit to anyone what I am doing but I feel I need to tell him. I am cutting myself so deeply with scissors, cutting my arms with them, cutting moles and whatever I can find off of me. I don’t know why I am doing this again and I certainly do not enjoy it as one former psychiatrist asked me when I was cutting myself years ago. I feel pain when I do it and I do NOT enjoy it. I am sure it is simply self-loathing and anger and sadness and really wishing I was not here but I have children to raise and I refuse to give up. All I can do is just try to stop or even better just throw the scissors out.
Thank you for listening. I hope everyone has less pain eventually. It’s the worst feeling in the world to be alone and feel like your own kid hates you, and you know you try so hard but only get abused by her like you were by your parents and your ex and now you are doing it to yourself.
God help me. I want to stop but I am not strong enough to but I want to and I will throw the scissors out.
Thanks so much for reading.
hurting mom
August 18, 2009 at 6:19 pm
I am sorry and sad to hear your story but there is hope! first I truly send you my love from my heart. You are loved… also by the Source that created you. You have an emptiness that is not you fault. I am going to send you the Red Report for free today to the email that you used for your comment. I know you feel unloved but do not give up ..you can heal..read the report slowly and heal ..take care and please read both reports today..You are a good person..i can feel it in your letter. Take care and do not hurt yourself anymore
October 16, 2009 at 2:47 am
Ive been cutting for two years now and im suppose tp take meds but my parents believe there is nothing wrong with me. They truly dont care and have expressed ot themselves to me. My dad was physically abusive when i was a kid but now he is just extremely verbally abusive. I cut when i feel lost sad or numb or like i dont feel in control. I hope so many days that one day ill die soon but it never comes. I cpuld never give up my razors i carry one around with me during school if i need it. I feel so alone and lost and cutting seems to help me.
October 21, 2009 at 2:16 pm
Hi, Thank you for you mail Brandom on Cutting yourself. What you have described is carefully explained in the “Red Report” This Scientific and faith based report will help you heal on your own. This is why it is now in 7 countries. If you cannot afford it I will send it to you for free. http://www.tradebit.com/filedetail.php/5620600-the-red-report-cure-teen-and-adult
Please let me know because you really need help. Take care and do write me back